We want many reforms in the state and society, but first and foremost we must nurture the notion that our country is Bangladesh, not any dream foreign land, and it is our responsibility to take care of our homeland.
The country I am witnessing now is very young compared with its prosperous peers, but the people here are very helpful towards one another and mentally very strong. These qualities of Bangladeshi people were proved in 1971, when they defeated the Pakistani army despite having poor training, and again in 2024. In the July-August 2024 uprising, I was present on the streets with other protesters and witnessed first-hand the courage and liveliness of people.
The people have the courage to sacrifice their lives for the country, and also are humane enough to preserve communal harmony, no matter what.
Taking all these into considerations, though I think more work is needed on women empowerment. Now having become a mother, I am more conscious about my rights and independence.
In our society, women grow up accepting limitations as normal. Compared to countries where women lack even basic rights like education or speech, we seem better off. However, becoming a mother made me realise I need equal rights as a citizen. Women should have the same opportunities as men. I want my child to grow up in a society where she is treated as a person, not burdened or deprived because she’s a woman.
Our reliance on sons stems from inadequate state support for the elderly, pressuring boys to become breadwinners. This patriarchal expectation limits their freedom and creates undue stress. A society with proper social security and independence for everyone is crucial.
Safety remains a major issue. Women face harassment everywhere—from homes to workplaces. Comprehensive measures, both societal and legal, are essential. Streets, workplaces, and homes must be safe for all. The state must ensure security so no one dares to harm another.
Women must also change their mindset shaped by societal norms. Families, especially mothers, play a vital role. By raising children with awareness and equality, we can inspire change. Strong family bonds, love, and moral education significantly influence a child’s development.
Children should grow with discipline and a sense of earning their rewards. Outdoor activities, exposure to nature, and diverse experiences foster compassion and broad-mindedness.
Lastly, laws on child guardianship need reform. Mothers should have equal rights as natural guardians of their children. Many are working on this, and it’s a hopeful step toward equality.
BDST: 1309 HRS, JAN 13, 2025
